From Harm to Healing: Overview
The From Harm to Healing treatment program is designed for men who have engaged in deceptive sexuality as defined by the DST model developed by Dr. Omar Minwalla. It’s a structured online program that’s split into 3 stages and is based upon the extensive DST-based course developed at Chris Jones Therapy. Please continue below for more information about each part of the program.
From Harm to Healing: Initial Consultation
For men who are interested in the program, the first place to start is with an initial zoom consultation to discuss the available options and to ask any questions that you might have. To set-up a consultation, please Contact Me
From Harm to Healing: Stage 1
The goal of stage 1 is “Illumination” – an in depth understanding of the DST model itself and the development of a structured treatment plan to address the primary behavioural issues associated with deceptive sexuality. The foundation for this is the From Harm to Healing Course developed at Chris Jones Therapy. For more information about the course itself, please Click Here
There are two options to choose from for Stage 1 – The 16-week group coaching program or the guided individual self-study program. Please note that it’s highly recommended to pursue the group coaching option if possible. The individual option is considered a back-up for those who are unable to do the group.
Why is the group program favoured over the individual program?
Some of the most frequent presenting issues with men who have engaged in deceptive sexuality are problems with authenticity, intimacy, and shame. Whilst the material in the individual and group options is the same, the group option provides a unique opportunity to grow in those specific areas with others who are struggling in similar ways.
16-Week Group Coaching Option
The course is broken down into 16 weekly modules and each participant is provided with a workbook that contains homework exercises for each module. We then have a weekly 90-minute facilitated group session where that weeks’ topics are processed in depth. Each participant is held accountable for the completion of the modules as we go.
Important Details
- Potential clients must complete a 50-minute assessment call to determine suitability for the group
- Consistent attendance of the group sessions is expected
- Groups follow a structured curriculum and all participants are expected to complete each task
- All Groups are facilitated by Chris Jones DSTT
- Maximum of 8 men per group
- Partner consultation call is offered
Pricing
Initial Assessment Call (50 Minutes) – £75
Group Sign-up Option 1 – £900 one-off payment
Group Sign-up Option 2 – £250 per 4 weeks (4 payments total)
*Please note that customers in the EU may incur an additional VAT charge
Curriculum
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Next Stage 1 Group Starting:
Friday 29th August 12pm UK time (7am EST)
New groups start regularly so please also enquire about other times that might be coming up
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Guided Individual Self-Study Option
For the individual option, the course is broken down into 3 sections which can be purchased separately or as one package. A course workbook is provided with tasks to complete as you work through the program, and each section includes 2 individual 50-minute sessions with Chris Jones DSTT in order to process the work. All work must be completed and returned to qualify for Stage 2.
Important Details
- No assessment is required but a consultation is recommended
- Clients are responsible for scheduling individual sessions
- The group option is recommended over the individual program where possible
- Partner consultation call is offered
Curriculum
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Pricing
Section 1: Illumination – £275 (2 individual sessions)
Section 2: Application – £275 (2 individual sessions)
Section 3: Attending – £275 (2 individual sessions)
Complete course – £750 (6 individual sessions)
*Please note that customers in the EU may incur an additional VAT charge
From Harm to Healing: Stage 2
After Stage 1 has been completed, clients can apply for Stage 2 of the program. The focus here is on the longer-term application of the treatment plan that was developed, with ongoing accountability and support. Once again, there are 2 options – an ongoing group option or individual therapy. Please note that individual availability is very limited.
Group Coaching Option
Participants will join an existing Stage 2 group (subject to availability) and continue to meet once a week for a 90-minute facilitated group session. The group will be open-ended (i.e. each participant can continue attending the group for as long as they need to.) We will still work with a high level of structure however in Stage 2 there will be increased opportunities to process individual issues at greater depth.
Important Details
- All participants must have completed Stage 1
- One 90 minute group session at the same time each week facilitated by Chris Jones DSTT
- Members are expected to be consistently working their treatment plan that they developed in Stage 1
- Maximum of 8 men per group
Structure
Each 4-week cycle will contain a mixture of treatment plan sessions, topic review sessions, and open sessions
Pricing
£180 per 4-week cycle
*Please note that customers in the EU may incur an additional VAT charge
Current Stage 2 Group Times:
Mondays – 12pm UK time (7am EST)
Tuesdays – 3:00pm UK time (10am EST)
Tuesdays – 7:30pm UK time (2:30pm EST)
Individual Therapy Sessions
Individual therapy sessions are available either as an alternative to, or in addition to the group option. The individual sessions differ from traditional talk therapy in that they’re primarily focussed on the application of the DST treatment plan, however there will naturally be even more opportunity to work on specific issues at greater depth when compared to the group setting.
Important Details
- The focus of individual therapy is still the treatment plan that was developed in Stage 1
- Clients are expected to do homework between sessions
- Sessions will initially be weekly however we will review this over time
- All therapy sessions are hosted online via zoom
- Availability for individual therapy is very limited
Pricing
50 Minute Therapy Sessions (via Zoom) – £90
80 Minute Therapy Sessions (via Zoom) – £135
Whilst the primary focus of my individual practice is therapy, I do offer some limited coaching sessions to those people based in territories where I’m not licensed to work as a therapist such as the US and Canada. Please Click Here if you’re interested in discussing this option. The fees for coaching are as follows:
50 Minute Coaching Sessions (via Zoom) – $175
*Please note that customers in the EU may incur an additional VAT charge
From Harm to Healing: Stage 3
Stage 3 of the program involves a deeper dive into the “22 Rooms” of Deceptive Sexuality Trauma which is a process we refer to as Mountain Work. The goal is to intentionally face and metabolize the harm that’s been caused by the secret sexual basement, which in turn can significantly increase empathy for the partner. This work can occur alongside Stage 2 however is best approached when some stability has been achieved.
The group format is generally far more powerful for this type of work and there will be additional group options for those specifically wanting to do this Stage 3 work (which can be discussed once you’re in the program).
Availability
Standard working hours (UK time)
Monday 9am – 5pm
Tuesday 9am – 5pm
Thursday 9am – 5pm
Friday 9am – 5pm
*Please note that these are my standard working hours but sessions outside of these times may be possible subject to agreement.
